Young Adults with Autism in Transition
Helping my 21 year old son to “be” in the world is as difficult in it’s own unique ways as it was when he was little and had no language, behavioral issues, etc.
Finding good supports and services for the young 18-30 year old’s after they leave the school system is hit and miss. Here in California our supports are being cut left, right and center.
While I work making films in autism and other disabilities and work with my son and others in the arts to support and encourage the development of social and life skills, it’s not always so easy to work with my own son.
I find I have to let go and have others do this (for the most part) in order to help him maintain his sense of self and not feel babied by me. He responds (as an adult) much better to outside supports.
He does respond well to my suggestions when I don’t get too close to “s”mothering him.
Any other professional / parents out there who experience the same issues?
June 4th, 2010 at 12:36 pm
I have been providing services to children, teens and young adults with autism for more thana decade and there is no question that the early intervention model absorbs the vast majority of the resources. Most parents are told that the growth/change “window” slams shut by first or second grade. Most parents are also told that the deficits related to autism will decrease over time. In my experience, change is always possible — the brain is capable of transformation across the life course. It is also my experience that the challenges of autism increase over time. Being a teen or young adult with autism is extraordinarily complex — in large part because there are so few professionals who know how to work with teens and young adults. I now devote the majority of my practice to teens and young adults. I run socialization and life skills group as well as offer individual coaching. I also now sponsor a meetup.com group that is for young adults and is free of charge. For more information you can check out my website: http://www.groupworkswest.com.
August 25th, 2010 at 5:01 pm
Hi, I enjoyed reading your blog. I have a daughter, now 20, with autism. I journal about her frequently and I think you and your readers may enjoy it. Check it out at http://www.beachfrontwisdom.com.
Thanks,
Brittanys Mom